Imagine for just a moment, if you will, that you are lying in your bed. Your mouth-watering lover is in the room with you, stroking your body, teasing you, tempting you mercilessly, and you are burning with desire. You want nothing more than to reach out and pull their body down on top of you, drive them into you and finally end this delicious torture. But you can't reach out... your wrists are tied with silk ropes to the headboard and your ankles are pressed back over your head; also bound the same way, leaving you completely revealed and quivering. You think for a passing second that you should be embarrassed about your position, but nothing matters right now except how incredible everything he is doing to you feels. His lips make contact with your flesh, your erect nipples and your throbbing, aching clitoris. You pull at your binds as your body writhes in unsurpassable ecstasy. Many orgasms later, as you lay limp and exhausted, he frees you from the silk ropes. Your sore muscles are relieved, but a smile returns to your lips as he presses his erection against you, and you wrap your freed arms and legs around his body... it's not nearly over yet.

Welcome to the inner workings of Lady Zombie's sex life and kinky lifestyle. How did it feel to fill my shoes for a moment? Hopefully, you were an enthralled as I was when I experienced the role of the bottom for one of the first times as told in the first-person story you just read. To truly be a fantastic and skilled Dominatrix (Top) in a relationship, you must be willing to experience a submissive (bottom) role... at least once.

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My submissive and I have been together for ten years, which means I like to switch things up a bit. That’s where role playing comes in. I have a drama background and am comfortable improvising a scene; my slave gets terrified when I ask him to inhabit a role without much preparation beforehand. Whether your bottom is an old hand at play acting or is shy about it, role playing can be a fascinating window into your lover’s soul.

If your bottom can’t role play on the fly, have him or her draft a scenario and dialogue beforehand for you both to memorize, including the kinds of punishments that should be included. Many slaves enjoy the sense of release that comes with submitting to a dom and don’t want to mastermind a scene; it can be a challenging and nasty trick to turn the tables on the slave by making him or her responsible for the night’s script—the perfect motivation for your recalcitrant sub to learn how to improvise!

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During one of our first conversations, the man who would eventually become my slave asked me to examine his nipples, which were clearly visible through his black mesh shirt. He wanted to know whether they stuck out. He suspected that they did, as he was still a target for “purple nurples” although he was in his twenties and long past the playground scenarios where such hurts usually occur. People, he said, just couldn’t resist twisting his nipples.

We were standing on the edge of the dance floor in a Goth club, and I had a difficult time controlling my mounting excitement as I complied with his request and got a lovely eyeful of his pierced nipples, which did indeed protrude and which, I knew, would look just wonderful adorned with some clamps.

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Candles have a long and glorious romantic history. They throw off gentle light that bathes people in a mysterious glow and instantly sets an intimate mood. Candle wax can be used on your slave as a form of strong sensation that can add to any BDSM scene.

Sensation play is an umbrella term for any kind of activity that produces an intense feeling in the sub's body, whether it is the shiveringly light touch of feathers tickling the skin or the burn of tiger balm applied to the genitals. Sensation play manipulates the sub's nervous system into a heightened state of arousal, in which each nerve is stretched to receive the dom's attentions. Alternating pain and pleasure ratchets up the tension and makes orgasm a glorious release. Such a technique also keeps the slave off guard-exactly the way you want it!

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