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I get in constant battles with people about my job and me. There are many assumptions about my personality and me. Which makes dating a whole other story to figure out. I get bombarded with questions when people find out what I do, especially guys. Dating in my position isn't always easy.
First thing, I don't have sex with everyone I meet and I'm not having sex all day every day. I'm not a slut and sleep around. Does a wrestler wrestle every person they meet, no they do not. People assume that I will have sex with anyone, which is not the case at all. I do have standards people and I'm selective abut who I sleep with. Yes believe me I do love sex but I'm not going to go out searching for it just because. I also don't have sex all day long. People always ask me if I get tired from all the sex. I'm thinking "what sex?" I don't even have time to always have sex with myself because I'm so busy lately. I wish I was having it all day and a lot with a special someone but until then it's not really much.
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Guys assume I will sleep with them on the first date no matter what. Or not even a date, if I make friends with a guy he thinks he will get some. Yes I have stated proudly that I will have sex on a first date if that's what I want. But that doesn't mean it's definitely going to happen. I also can't stand when guys are rude about it and start asking me questions and making crass comments. Yes I do talk about sex all day long, but not my sex. I'm not going to divulge all my secrets to you. I will not entertain your dirty talk and comments when I'm not comfortable with you, stop it.
I don't have kinky crazy over the top sex every time I have sex. Sometimes the flogger comes out but that's about it. People assume my room is filled with sex machines and I'm into everything and have tried everything. So not true and there are things I still won't do. Unless I'm in love with you then we can chat.
You can still bring me home to meet your mom. I won't sit there and talk about sex the whole time. Surprise surprise sometimes its nice to now talk about it. I won't hit on your family. I do want a relationship and to get married and have kids one day. People think that I don't. I will not corrupt your children and teach them naughty things.
Guys get intimidated when I tell them what I do. Yes I do know a lot about sex and probably know more about their prostrate then they do. But even I'm still learning new things every day. I will not make fun of you for not knowing something and doing something wrong. I won't whip out crazy toys and ask you to try all sorts of positions that might kill you.
I'm a normal typical 25-year-old girl. I love to shop, go dancing and go to the gym. I just happen to have a job that is still somewhat taboo. It's hard finding a guy who is comfortable with what I do and can handle the pressure and still love me. Because I'm not changing any time soon. Just do me a favor, never assume anything about me cause your probably wrong.
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